Growing older doesn’t necessarily mean growing wiser. But as I do, I learned more of being contented in my own skin, in my abilities and accepted my frailties with grace. Continue reading
Reblogging this for the New Year! I know that if there are still semblances of bitterness or unforgiveness as a carry over from 2013, today is just a waste.
Love Him Who Deserves it Least
This quote ends with the words “because that’s when he needs it most.” As we pass by the friends, family, and strangers who have either betrayed or offended us, let’s use this as an opportunity to fortify our ability to forgive.
Let’s see these moments as a time to strengthen our skills of empathy and to show authentic pity for their brokenness. Remember, we are all a result from, or a reaction to, the people we meet. Those who are hurting have just met some of the wrong folks.
In my years of dealing and leading difficult people, I have found 5 simple steps for loving those who are hard to love.
5 Steps for Loving the Unlovable:
- Recognize Abuse & Brokenness – We must remember that hurt people, hurt people. These individuals have likely experienced abuse which has caused brokenness and pain.
- Don’t Reinforce Their Brokenness – As a broken person myself, it’s rare that I don’t recognize my own brokenness. Talk about their strengths. Broken people need less awareness, and more healing.
- Be Patient - Healing does not occur in a day. Broken people can be unpredictable, irrational, and frustrating. Limit your time with them, but when you are with them, be patient.
- Let Go – It’s not your job to control people. Know that when you enter the realm of a broken person, you are willingly meeting them where they’re at, not having them come to you. Relax, it’s their life, not yours.
- Forgive Them – Extend grace and forgive them even if they’re not sorry. These people are hurting and the experience of grace and forgiveness will only help them on their journey of healing.
What has helped you love broken people?
I first heard of Ramen Cool from my daughter Kat as this great place in Kapitolyo, Pasig City sometime this year. So my ever reliable and willing bff Rhycel and I decided to give it a try.
The place was packed with hungry families, a few dating couples and groups of officemates when we arrived. Be prepared to park on the street beside the restaurant because their parking space is suitable for just a very few cars. The guard was very helpful, taking the time to show us where we can safely park. I realized that this small area in Kapitolyo, Pasig is fast becoming a favorite dining spot for people living near and for those who just want a different and new food experience.
The interior of the place is cozy and welcoming. A bunch of Japanese pop paintings on the wall and an LCD screen playing music at the background completed the decor. In one corner was a nice painting of Sakura flowers which I appreciated and that’s where we seated ourselves.
The menu was presented simply and it was surprising that the prices were affordable. Some dishes can be shared by two people: either both women who are not famished, on a partial food diet, an adult with a child or an adult male and female on a date. For two, normal and hungry couples, forget sharing and order individually.
The serving size was good for 2-3 people and it was served hot with the usual raw egg. The beef slices were plenty and the soup was, (thank goodness) not that sweet, unlike other Sukiyaki versions I’ve tasted. They didn’t go overboard with the sweetness and the soup was tasty! There were a lot of mushrooms and big white onions plus the vermicelli was cooked just right. The food server was courteous enough to ask us if we want her to mix the egg for us and for weakness due to hunger, we readily said “yes,please!”
Tuna Spicy Mayo
I was looking for something other than California Maki and found this! I loved the sauce that accompanied it. The mayo was combined with the Togarashi and a bit of Kikkoman for a spicy sauce that you can dip the maki in. There’s still the wasabi to reckon with so just imagine the kick that all of these spices does to your senses! ( Calling the fire station…)
Cold Noodles (Hiyashi Chuka) (Php 190)
I’m fond of cold noodles and if you haven’t tried it before, now would be the time to try it. Ramen Cool’s Hiyashi Chuka uses yellow egg noodles and not the green ones that I prefer in other Japanese restaurants. The dipping sauce (as I call it) often accompanies the dish and yes, you just dip the cold noodles in and yum!
House Tea (FREE!)
I love their house tea simply because of the container. I like that the temperature is just right and the double walled tumbler makes sure that it stays that way. Though not as good as the roasted house tea of Shinjuku Ramen House in Makati Avenue, still, it’s free and refillable and helps my tastebud appreciate all the different flavors of the food. Aids in digestion, too!
The food personnel of the restaurant are all courteous although I have to get their attention a couple of times before they came to the table. I don’t know if they are understaffed but I do love a restaurant that is at the beck and call of their customers, don’t you? But overall, it was a great gastronomic experience for us. The food was affordable, the place is clean and it’s now on my list of favorite ramen places!
Ramen Cool is located at:
25 East Capitol Drive, Brgy. Kapitolyo Pasig
Get directions HERE
Accepts cash and credit card. Parking: limited Delivery Service: None
Children Friendly: Yes Pets: Not Yet
- The Anatomy of Ramen: An Illustrated Guide to the 4 Main Types (tokyodesu.com)
- Food Review: Kamamarui Ramen & Sushi (malffej.wordpress.com)
- Maybe It’s Cold Outside (janteziarra.wordpress.com)
To write a story is hard…to do an exceptional way of doing it takes a lot of talent and practice. Pixar started out as an animation studio and became the most interesting storyteller of our generation. From the first Toy Story, their films got better and better. My personal favorites are of course Finding Nemo and the Incredibles.
These set of rules are by far, the most innovative. It makes you rethink how you could write a better story with unforgettable characters who have a lot of flaws, yet came out as winners in the end. Rule #12 says it well:
"Discount the first thing that comes to mind. And the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th get the obvious out of the way. Surprise yourself."
Yes, there’s still a lot of plus points for those much needed happy endings and ever afters.
- FUN FACT: For Finding Nemo The Entire Pixar Staff Was Required to Learn Fish Biology (critiquethatfilm.com)
- Business Intelligence According to the Pixar Model (domo.com)
- 5 Writing Rules I’ve Learned from Pixar (wordservewatercooler.com)